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Saturday, March 07, 2009

What's on your nightstand?

I have a lot of junk on my nightstand:

lotion
pens
earrings
markers
gem clips
random misplaced toy parts
dust
coaster


But I always make room for a few books:

1. I just began reading this book yesterday. Makes me think...that's why I like this one.


2. I've been reading this book for over a month now and love discussing it in our weekly ladies' study time. It's magnificent to see the gospel woven into the real stories of Eve, Sarah, Mrs. Noah, Tamar, Esther, and Hannah.


3. It just wouldn't be my nightstand without some kind of morbid random reading. I admit that I just skim this book because some of the stories are way too sad and horrible. I love reading biographies and I find "real crime" intriguing (I always wanted to be a cop when I grew up), so that's why this book choice makes sense (at least to me).

What's in your bin?

Our recycling bin is always overflowing by pick-up day. Usually, it contains juice jugs, milk cartons, newspapers, and yogurt cups. This week, however, I saw my mom for a brief moment and she handed me her recyclables since she doesn't get the service in her town.

Note to self: Encourage Mom to drink more water.

Need some craft-spiration?

Here's a long list of craft ideas that you can do with your children every day this month. Most are easy and they are all fun to do. Some are messy (Yeah! That's what I like!), some are tedious, and others are crazy wicked. You can visit the demonstrations/instructions by clicking on the blue links.

Have fun!
Thanks to Jean at The Artful Parent for this list.

31 Activities to Do with Young Children

1. Tissue paper candle holders: tissue paper pieces applied to glass jars with Mod Podge or glue.

2. Make birdseed pinecone treats to hang in the trees, then watch the birds and squirrels they attract.

3. Start a nature journal and try observational drawing outdoors on a warm day (or from the window on a cold day). Also, see Lori’s tips on introducing observational drawing to the young or reluctant child.

4. Pack a field bag with binoculars, magnifying glass, tweezers, bird book, art supplies, etc. and head to the arboretum to explore and observe.

5. Make paper plate masks for dress up and pretend play.

6. Make tissue paper stained glass using wax paper and liquid starch.

7. Cook soft pretzels (thanks Erica!).

8. Try clean mud with soap and toilet paper. Here are Julie’s notes: I use liquid watercolors instead of food coloring! Oh, and the cheaper the t.p. the better for this recipe. If you add a little water, you get an actual moldable substance. The more water you add, the softer and fluffier and squishier it gets.

9. Decorate and fill a Fun Box with Maia.

10. Make yummy baked doughnuts.

11. Try tissue paper staining again with actual bleeding tissue paper. Wow! I just realized much of MaryAnn Kohl’s Preschool Art book is on Google. I wonder what other books are on there?.

12. Try nature stamping with leaves and flowers and a stamp pad. Perhaps do these in the nature journal.

13. Revisit fruit and vegetable printing with paints and a variety of produce such as onions, apples, cabbage, grapefruit.

14. Make pizza faces a la Roots, Shoots, Buckets & Boots or happy face open sandwiches. Add bell pepper smiles, olive eyes, etc to pizza or bagels with cream cheese. Add raisins and banana to a peanut butter sandwich.

15. Trace Maia’s body and help her fill in her body parts (bones, heart, etc).

16. Make salt dough beads or claydoh beads. Last time we tried a different recipe and they fell apart under Maia’s rough handling, although they were still well worth making.

17. Visit the art museum or the science museum.

18. Germinate grocery store produce: avocados, lemons, oranges, sweet potatoes, potatoes, pineapple, apples, squash, beans, etc.

19. Make wool felted balls or eggs using raw, carded wool and a big bowl of warm soapy water following SouleMama’s instructions in The Creative Family. Here’s an online tutorial for a different felted ball method, and another for felting with kids.

20. Make handmade paper shapes per Tracy’s tutorial. Add flower seeds to the mix and give as gifts that can be grown in the garden.

21. Make a found object sculpture with popsicle sticks, paper clips, and buttons such as the one shown on Art Projects for Kids. You’ll have to scroll down a little bit to get to it because I wasn’t able to get the permalink to work for some reason.

22. Make Montesorri Mama’s awesome ball tube. Also, set up a simple ramp (perhaps a cookie sheet set on some blocks) and test roll different kinds of objects.

23. Try some marbleized paper with oil and food coloring or liquid watercolors — a project I know Maia would absolutely love.

24. Collage/decorate an unfinished wood frame then use it to frame and hang a piece of Maia’s artwork.

25. Cook popovers, one of Maia’s favorite cooking (and eating) projects.

25. Make sandpaper art by drawing on coarse sandpaper with crayon stubs then melt at low heat in the oven.

26. Make a kite and fly it.

27. Dye white flowers by setting the stems in water mixed with food coloring.

28. Make butter by putting cream in a jar and shaking it. We did this when I was a kid (we had a cow), and I’d like to try it with Maia.

29. Try watercolor pencils. Also, draw with washable markers then take out in the rain or spray with water.

30. Make bean face collages. Use glue to draw a face, then fill in the features with various kinds of beans.

31. Grow a rock sugar crystal.

Friday afternoon

The weather was absolutely beautiful all day Friday. We spent a good while outside, enjoying the hint of spring in the air. Andrew dipped his fingers in the paint to create a masterpiece before hopping onto his bike to burn some calories.

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Friday, March 06, 2009

BOGO free Baskin Robbins


Click here to print your coupon for a BOGO (buy one get one) free ice cream sundae from Baskin Robbins. Our local location is in the uptown area, connected to the new Dunkin' Donuts.

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Driscoll's family dinner devotions

I'm a huge fan of Mark Driscoll, thanks to my husband who seems to have a man crush on him. In other words, he is to Mitch what Tim Tebow is to Chad M. Well, maybe not that bad....but close. I am not sure if our oldest child is quite old enough to accomplish all these steps but he's getting real close. I'm posting this mostly for my own records so I can easily find it later, ya know?

Mark Driscoll gives a realistic approach to doing family devotions at dinnertime:

Step 1. Eat dinner with your entire family regularly.
Step 2. Mom and Dad sit next to one another to lead the family discussion.
Step 3. Open the meal by asking if there is anyone or anything to pray for.
Step 4. Someone opens in prayer and covers any requests. This task should be rotated among family members so that different people take turns learning to pray aloud.
Step 5. Start eating and discuss how everyone’s day went.
Step 6. Have a Bible in front of the parents in a translation that is age-appropriate for the kids’ reading level. Have someone (parent or child) open the Bible, and assign a portion to read aloud while everyone is eating and listening.
Step 7. Parents should note key words and themes in the passage and explain them to the kids on an age-appropriate level.
Step 8. Ask questions about the passage. You may want to begin with having your children summarize what was read—retelling the story or passage outline. Then, ask the following questions: What does this passage teach us about God? What does it say about us or about how God sees us? What does it teach us about our relationships with others?
Step 9. Let the conversation happen naturally, listen carefully to the kids, let them answer the questions, and fill in whatever they miss or lovingly and gently correct whatever they get wrong so as to help them.
Step 10. If the Scriptures convict you of sin, repent as you need to your family, and share appropriately honest parts of your life story so the kids can see Jesus’ work in your life and your need for him too. This demonstrates gospel humility to them.
Step 11. At the end of dinner, ask the kids if they have any questions for you.
Step 12. If you miss a night, or if conversation gets off track, or if your family occasionally just wants to talk about something else, don’t stress—it’s inevitable.

Adapted from “Family Dinner Bible Studies” by Mark Driscoll in Trial: 8 Witnesses from 1 & 2 Peter, a study guide. (Mars Hill Church, 2009), pages 69-70.

RedBox Wednesday - MARCH

Hear Ye! Hear Ye! The month of march will include both Monday and Wednesday free rentals from RedBox. I'll post them here on this blog each week.

Today's RedBox free rental code is:

75EA16

Good til midnight! Just make sure to return it by 9:00 p.m. tomorrow.

4 yr old 911 call saves mom



Thanks, Barbara, for sharing this sound bite and resource.

Listen and hear how four year old, TJ, called 911 and saved his mother's life after reading this book.

Free ice cream @ Bruster's, Sat. 3/7


It's PJ Day at Bruster's!

If you visit Bruster's Ice Cream Shop this Saturday, March 7, you can receive a free waffle cone with one scoop of ice cream.

What's the catch? You must be wearing you pajamas! This offer is good at all three local Bruster's locations, from open to close.

Would it be a sin to visit all three locations in one day? Hmmmmm......

Wordless Wednesday

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Tuesday, March 03, 2009

No holding back

After a heart pouring conversation about one of my children to my friend, Amber, she said to me that it seems I'm holding back a lot on my blog. I nodded, smiled, and then felt tears swell in my eyes. It felt good to connect with another mom who could sense my frustration and understood my heart. I never wanted this blog to appear as if I have it all together, because that is surely a lie. However, I've stayed away from writing about my personal struggles only because I am not comfortable sharing my private life with strangers. I'm not one that really thrives on advice about personal issues from online readers (stack that up to pride, maybe?). I'd rather share my struggles and praises with close friends who know me well and whom I trust will point me to the gospel.

I've been hesitating to blog about this because of the reasons I stated above....but, there's no harm in sharing my hardships, my need for prayers, my daily need for Jesus, and everyday struggles as a mom. I'm real and I'll admit that I DON'T HAVE IT ALL TOGETHER.

You see, I have three MAGNIFICENT children...three precious gifts that God has given to us. They each have their own personality but they all have one thing in common....sin. My husband and I strive to root our discipline in the gospel so the children know that their poor choices and disobedience is a heart issue, not a behavior issue. BUT, what is a mom to do when all of her options for discipline have been used and none found to be effective?

I think that there are spaces in time where one child might be more difficult than another. It might be due to age or a sudden life change...or simply because they are growing into big boys and girls. Right now, I'm troubled over the actions of one child specifically and, after much time of consistent discipline, I see no change. I cry as I type this because I love this sweet child with all my heart and I only want the kid to be kind, gentle, faithful, obedient, and loving. Sometimes I catch moments of initiated affection toward a sibling but, as is normal toddler behavior, violence erupts just ten seconds later over the battle of a toy, a wrong look, or my order of '"no". I KNOW THAT THIS IS NORMAL! YES, I KNOW. But that doesn't mean that it's easy to watch and deal with. I'm exhausted.

God pursues me because he loves me. Therefore, I must, and want, to also pursue my child's heart. I must press on and continue showering this child with the love of Christ. But....can I just be honest?....it's hard.

Lord, please keep reminding me that your way doesn't come naturally to the human heart. Bring to my mind the fruits of the Spirit so that my child will see Jesus in me. Remind me that you are constantly at work in the hearts of my children and in mine. I'm the worst sinner of them all.

How to exasperate your children

Colossians 3:21 (ESV)
Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.

12 surefire ways to exasperate your children:
  1. Be a hypocrite
  2. Be a bully to them
  3. Be harsh to them
  4. Be Emotionally Distant from them
  5. Show Favoritism to Other Kids
  6. Have Unrealistic Standards
  7. Be Mr Question your kid’s salvation guy
  8. Be Mr Assure your kid’s salvation guy
  9. Don’t discipline them
  10. Discipline them without biblical instruction
  11. Don’t teach them the Bible
  12. Don’t connect discipline to the gospel
HT: Amy's Humble Musings & The Irish Calvanist

FREE stuff


Thanks to Southern Savers, here's the short list of free, and almost free, items this week at your local store(s).

More snow play


Before the snow melted completely away, I took the boys outside for one more hour of play. We built a tiny snowman beside the mailbox to greet our postman, wrote letters in the snow, and went for a short walk. Good times!


Monday, March 02, 2009

RedBox Code today only

Redbox code for one free rental, good until midnight.

MS72K3

S-N-O-W

I've always wanted my kids to experience snow....I just never thought it would actually be in our own frontyard in west central Georgia; much less 2-4 inches of it! After we got home from church, we skipped rest time and let the boys stay outside and play. We quickly discovered that this southern family just wasn't prepared for this kind of weather. We had no waterproof clothes of any kind and only own one pair of rainboots for our kids. We played anyway. Mitch helped the boys build a snowman, have snowball fights, and sled down the hills. I, on the other hand, stayed inside with Abigail while she napped and I then occasionally ventured outside to snap a few photos. I was the "official photographer" and later was given the title of "defrosting bath giver".

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I like to look at snow but I don't care too much for playing in it (although, it was fun to throw a few handfuls at my husband and sons). I am sort of sad the snow will all melt away over most of today, but it was fun while it was here! Memories were made and scrapbook pages will be filled.
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Sunday, March 01, 2009

Intelligent Design

When I got home from the ladies retreat Saturday afternoon, I found two monkeys in my bed.

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Chillin' like a villain

Just got back this afternoon from the ladies overnight retreat,
and it was.....D-E-L-I-G-H-T-F-U-L!

I only wish we could have stayed one more night! I simply loved sitting around with good friends as we chatted over a delicious meal, laughed as we stuffed our face with brownie-ala-mode, and later sipped on coffee (I think I have a tummy ache!). The fact that it rained the entire time we were there made it all the more cozy and intimate. We had no agenda but to have great conversation and relax. It was like a slumber party since we all sat around in our PJs and all stayed under one roof. The first person went to bed at 9:30 and the last two people went to bed at 2:00 a.m. Bet you can't guess who stayed up the latest!



After checking out of our chalet, we ate a light lunch together and then roamed around the quaint downtown area, perusing the antique stores. It seems that all those who went are already ready for another mountain retreat, so I guess I should look to book another one of these things in the fall, huh? Anyone with me?

You know, this time reminded me of the value and importance of relationships. I crave time with other women and I enjoy hearing their stories of praise and praying with them through pain. It's nice to share your heart with those who honestly care, knowing that they'll lift you up in prayer. Although our conversations were edifying and pure, we did spend some time dishing out our opinions on our favorite actors and movies. Nothing will change my mind...I still hate Napoleon Dynamite, so bite me!

I truly feel that it is through relationships that God is most glorified...it was God's relationship with his own son that brought the Father the most glory. I really am undeserving of any good gift the Lord gives, but it brings me great joy to know that He delights in giving me friends.

FYI.....
Chillin' like a villain = Completely over-glorified way of saying "relaxing at home". It does, however, point out that criminals probably sit around doing nothing pretty much the same way everybody else does. (www.urbandictionary.com)
Hmmmmm......

Friday, February 27, 2009

* Giggle Giggle *


Another free panty...this time from The Express.

Click here to print your coupon for a free pair. Offer good until March 1, so hurry to the mall!

I hear you snickering, Leslie P.

It Won't Be Like This For Long

Yesterday afternoon, while sitting together outside in the breeze, Andrew said, "Mama, put your arm around me".

Today, after waking up early from his afternoon nap, Luke said, "Mommy, hold me. I sick."

While driving on a quick errand run this morning, I listened to Abigail sing "The Wheels on the Bus" while making the hand motions.

I'm not a huge country music fan (unless it's Martina McBride or Sugarland on the radio), but I like this song....not to mention that I've always liked to say the word Hootie (and the Blowfish).



He didn't have to wake up
He'd been up all nite
Lay'n there in bed listen'n
To his new born baby cry
He makes a pot of coffee
He splashes water on his face
His wife gives him a kiss and says
It gonna be OK

It wont be like this for long
One day soon we'll look back laugh'n
At the week we brought her home
This phase is gonna fly by
So baby just hold on
It won't be like this for long

Four years later bout four thirty
She's crawling in their bed
And when he drops her off at preschool
She's clinging to his leg
The teacher peels her off of him
He says what can I do
She says now don't you worry
This will only last a week or two

It wont be like this for long
One day soon we'll drop her off
And she wont even know you're gone
This phase is gonna fly by
If you can just hold on
It wont be like this for long

One day soon she'll be a teenager
And at times you'll think she hates him
Then he'll walk her down the aisle
And he'll raise her veil
But right now she up and cry'n
And the truth is that he don't mind
As he kisses her good night
And she says her prayers
He lays down there beside her
Till her eyes are finally closed
And just watch'n her it breaks his heart
Cause he already knows
It wont be like this for long
One day soon that little girl is gonna be
All grown up and gone
Yeah this phase is gonna fly by
He's try'n to hold on
It wont be like this for long
It wont be like this for long